Four warning signs you should be aware of to determine if you are involved in an abusive or unhealthy relationship:
TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE:
- Has your partner become totally preoccupied with you such as calling you every hour “just to hear your voice”, or driving you to and from your job, or doing things you were once doing for yourself?
TEMPER OUTBURSTS:
- Does your partner have outbursts of temper, cursing, throwing things or kicking doors not directed at you but towards anybody or anything?
RAGE FOR PAST RELATIONSHIPS:
- Does your partner talk about prior dates and is there rage in his/her anger regarding your previous relationships?
CHECKING AND TRACKING:
- Does your partner keep track of where you went, who you met and how much time you spent somewhere else?
IF YOU ANSWERED “YES” TO ONE OR MORE OF THESE QUESTIONS, YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW MAY BE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
- In an emergency, dial 911.
- Visit National Domestic Violence Hotline www.ndvh.org or call 24-Hour Hotline 800.799.7233 for counseling assistance. In Illinois call 877.863.6338.
- Visit WINGS Program, Inc. www.wingsprogram.org or call 24-Hour Hotline 847.221.5680
- Visit Chicago Metropolitan Battered Women’s Network www.batteredwomensnetwork.org
Ensuring PEACE, Ending Domestic Violence
The Saint Anne Catholic Community
– AFFIRMS: the dignity of every life, and promotes self-respect, healthy relationships, loving families
– STANDS: against violence – physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, financial, systemic – especially violence within our own families.
If you or someone you know is in a violent or abusive situation and in need of help, please call:
Mary Ellen Johnston, Human Concerns – 847-382-2148
St. Anne Parish Office – 847-382-5300
“As bishops, we condemn the use of the Bible to support abusive behavior in any form. A correct reading of Scripture leads people to an understanding of the equal dignity of men and women and to relationships based on mutuality and love.”
